Realisation!🖤🙏

Realisation

This word means the act of realising things. But i feel in real life it means to realise things too late and after that regretting over our past decision.

She lost her grandfather. The one who taught her how to be a good person, how to be dedicated in your life and the way to achieve her dreams. But she got so much involved in achieving all this that she forgot him only. Visits decreased, weeks to months and than to years. Meeting him was a rare incidence. Though she missed him, but she always thought she got a plenty of time and the main focus right now should be to become something. 

Years passed and one day she got a call from her dad - "beta, don't panic but your grandfather is no more". She was shattered, didn't know how to respond. Packed all her belongings and went to see him last time. Now those visits turned from years to months and then into weeks. She visited his house often , to feel his warmth, to relive those memories.

She does realised his importance. But when? when she lost him, when he was no more to guide her, to be there for her. This is what happens with us in life , we care for the things so late. The time when they are no more. At that point when we can't undo anything.Whether it's about an apology or a lesson , everything hits our brain so late that we become helpless.  Not only realisation is important, but i feel timely realisation is important. If she cared about him before, if she gave him much deserving attention then things would have been different. She would have got more time with him and would have been saved from a lifetime guilt.

Hope you understand this whole chronology. Things are always the same, situations are almost similar but what's needed is timely acceptance and action.